Stay Or Let it Go....

What do you do when you meet someone you really like but.......

I really hate the conjunction "but", it just adds grief to a sentence for me.
So yeah, there is this cute, outspoken guy I recently met and am dying to be his all, but he has a girlfriend (I was tempted to put a sad face)lol

So what exactly do you do when you find out that the guy you were already fantasizing and daydreaming about has a woman? Do you put on your brave face and see where it goes or do you just let it go.

The thing is I don't really know the answer to the question. However, I know that your age, how you think the guy in question feels about you and also how he feels about his girlfriend has to be considered. Also, you have to remember the rule of Karma, and please ladies don't go out of your way to get him. Don't do something stupid like get pregnant or force yourself on him or better still jazz him up ( Am serious)!

I think you are allowed to do things like give him equal attention. For example if he calls you, then you call him. He sends a text, you send a text back and so on.

Just let him know how you feel. You never know, He might just feel the same way!

Hey Lover boy am still waiting for that call.....

My dearest Blog

I haven't been here in what seems like forever. Been too busy with Work, Family and plenty other stuff.
I must say that I missed you and as I type my silver keyboard I can feel this joy from within. I'm actually smiling as I type absolutely nothing. I'm quite tired of all this no fuel issue, i think I let it get to me. Also, What's up with all these brutal killings and murdering of people in this country smh(SHAKING MY HEAD). Some countries are dying from natural disasters and Nigerians are busy creating man-made disasters!!!lol
So much to do in a day and sooo little hours to get it done.
This is one of the things that make me happy...... Knowing that I can write to you and you wont judge me.
I learned new and important things this past couple of days and I'm glad. For instance, letting things happen naturally
Off to bed.........

Give Me One Reason By Tracy Chapman

Give me one reason to stay here - and I'll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here - and I'll turn right back around
Said I don't want leave you lonely
You got to make me change my mind

Baby I got your number and I know that you got mine
But you know that I called you, I called too many times
You can call me baby, you can call me anytime
But you got to call me

Give me one reason to stay here - and I'll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here - and I'll turn right back around
Said I don't want leave you lonely
You got to make me change my mind

I don't want no one to squeeze me - they might take away my life
I don't want no one to squeeze me - they might take away my life
I just want someone to hold me and rock me through the night

This youthful heart can love you yes and give you what you need
I said this youthful heart can love you and give you what you need
But I'm too old to go chasing you around
Wasting my precious energy

Give me one reason to stay here - and I'll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here - and I'll turn right back around
Said, I don't want leave you lonely
You got to make me change my mind

Baby just give me one reason - Give me just one reason why
Baby just give me one reason - Give me just one reason why I should stay
Said I told you that I loved you
And there ain't no more to say

2010 baby. We made it!

2010 baby!!! A year of fulfillment, joy, unlimited happiness, favour in the eyes of God and man.

I say a big congratulations to everyone who made it to this new decade. It shall be the beginning of new things, new hopes and new dreams in our lives. A big thank you to my Family, friends, loved ones and well- wishers, I wish you all that you wish yourselves in this new year. May all your dreams come to reality.

Live, love, and be merry because life is too short. Do what makes you happy because that opportunity may never come again. At some point in one's life you may think you've done so many things wrong, and you don't know how you can do right. That's why I think as human beings we are very lucky we usually get second chances so far we are still on the earth. Please people, live your lives to the fullest.

To all those who didn't make it, I know that you are in a better place and you will live on in our hearts. Even though we can never know what you're up to, and we can't exactly check up on you. We hope that you are okay and resting in God's Bosom.

When I think about how your life was cut short,I can't help but cry. I know you must have had dreams, hopes and plans but it never came to past. Then I think about you, and I realise we drifted apart and I said we'll catch up when I move back; when I finally moved back we never got that chance. Every time I think about you tears well up in my eyes because I realise that you're no more with us, I can't call you on a phone or write you a letter.

Remember those days of Secondary school when you helped me with my exams especially Maths and Economics. You were the intelligent Bunmi, and I was the playful and unserious Bunmi. I remember how you dealt with some of my friends when they were nasty or rude to you.

Dear Bunmi, we started 2009 together, but we didn't see it end together. I can't say Happy new Year to you and it breaks my heart...

Gone to Soon my Nephew.....

I love you, but God loves you more.
R.I.P Olubunmi Adegboyega Onanubi( Bunmi Onanubi Boy)