Journey of Love......

Here we are in 2009, when friends are crossing their names out of the singles list.
I dare to say that many of us are still on it by choice in a few cases (very few cases may I add), and for most of us it's one of those things in Life.

If I may speak for myself, I would say that I have dotted most of my I(s) and crossed most of my T(s)..... So why then do I remain on the singles list?? Is it by choice? or is it Life?
Someone recently asked me what my greatest fear is? It took me approximatly 0.4 seconds to answer. It was like the answer was right on the tip of my tongue, I didnt believe how fast it took me to answer the question.
I am sure people think they know what the answer is...... However, I can bet my inheritance no one can guess. So am home later that evening, played some music and thought deep about my answer... Did I really mean that? Is that the way other people feel? Can I really achieve this?

Am going to tell you what my greatest fear is later, but before that, am going to tell you a couple of things about Love. Things we know but I guess we forget or simply choose to ignore.

Love, that word scares the living daylight out of me. Yet it makes my heart pound faster than normal. We all know what love is ;

Love is patient, kind, it does not envy, it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrong doings. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves. Love never fails............

So I ask, "If Love is all these things, why then do we have failed marriages"? Aren't our so called marriages based on Love??? I can't seem to phantom the number of failed marriages I have heard of in these past few months since i returned from the UK.

So ladies, I want us to think deeply. Are we getting married for the right reasons????

Goodnight



TBC