We want A Lady In the Street, But a Freak in the Bed

Isn't that what men want???

I am currently in the dating world and trust me, it is not a pretty world to live in....

I met this drop dead gorgeous guy, I have only met a handful of them in my life except for the Hollywood stars I fantasize about (Wentworth Miller; Prison Break, Morris Chestnut; Best man, Tyson Craig Beckford; Ralph Lauren Model & others) but I can't seem to place this guy.

He is of perfect age, intelligent, well-spoken, engages in a fantastic conversation, fun to be with and in order not to bore you I will stop there. So we hang out a couple of times and there is this crazy attraction and I go for it or should I say we both went for it....

So here is the deal, I consider myself a beautiful young woman who has an exuberant confidence and a great self esteem, very eloquent, very fashionable with a great carriage. To top it up, am a lady in the street and a ..........

If I were a boy, I would definitely be into me... lol

So we've hung out a couple of times, clubs, parties, movies, Lunch, hang out with friends and a get-together. That will be a total of 6 times or there about in the space of five months... OK, before you jump into conclusions, he works out of town... Still a silly reason for us to have hung out for that little amount of time right????

So I follow my heart and leave my mind to ponder on the matter, but I can't seem to understand what the hell is going on. What is stopping this guy???? One minute he is all into me and the next minute he is like an Alien from outer space (Even E-T is more friendlier than he is when he is in that zone). So I come out and use the "L" word (Calm down, its the small L not the big L)

So here is the truth, and this is how I move on. I soliloquize truthfully and make sure am as candid as can be. So I ask myself a couple of personal questions?????

Question: Do you think he likes you?
Answer: I don't know,I think so

Question: If he liked you wont he call you often and check up on you??
Answer: Yes he will.

Question: So does he call you often and check up on you???
Answer: No. But his job doesn't give room for that most of the time..(stupid excuse)

Fact: He can send a text or at least reply the ones you send......

Question: Does he send you text messages or reply the heart-felt ones you send??
Answer: No. But he is a workaholic, he usually doesn't have time (Stupid excuse)

Conclusion of the matter: Get a life babes, he is just not that into you!

So all my single ladies out there, we know when a guy likes us, don't we? When the guy we like soo much isn't just that into us, we pretend not to notice, and so we make up soo many excuses to exempt them from the rule.

So beautiful ladies, lets make way for another drop dead sexy gorgeous guy in our heart, and let's stop dwelling on that one who doesn't care about us...

He loves me, He loves me not, He loves me, he loves me not!